Woman with severed hand among victims of Russia’s domestic violence

One Moscow woman says she doesn’t know why her husband attacked her seemingly out of nowhere at the end of their first week in lockdown together.
“He was crashing the furniture, throwing things at me,” she said.

“He knocked over the fridge and the washing machine and all the wardrobes. I sat on the sofa with the children hoping that my kids wouldn’t be hit.”

Image: The domestic violence debate was at the forefront in Russia before the pandemic
It was the first time he’d been physically violent towards Natalya (not her real name). Despite the lockdown and not wanting to take any chances, she took her two children and left.
Natalya said she used to criticise women in these kinds of circumstances.

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“‘It’s her own fault,’ I would think. But now I’ve read a lot about it and I know that men like this become more and more aggressive. In the beginning he simply asked me to come back. Now he’s threatening to kill me,” she said.

Natalya was lucky to find a shelter that was open and would take her.

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Many across Russia have shut because of lockdown. To make things more difficult, moving around in Moscow and some other Russian regions requires digital passes.
If you break the rules, you’re more likely to be sent home than escorted somewhere safe.
One by-product of lockdown felt in country after country is the terrible surge in domestic violence that comes with it.

Image: Oksana Pushkina, Russian TV host and anti-domestic abuse advocate
The UN is predicting a possible 15 million cases of intimate partner violence if lockdowns last three months, and 31 million if they go on for six months.
The UN secretary general has implored governments to put women’s safety first as they consider their pandemic responses.
Now in its sixth week in lockdown, and with the virus spreading at one of the fastest rates globally, Russia claims to be bucking that trend.
According to the interior ministry, figures are down 13% year-on-year with the gravest of violent crimes within the home down an apparent 16.4%.
Those statistics paint a very different picture from the surge in calls to crisis hotlines reported by women’s support groups.
Moscow City Council said calls to their psychologist hotline were up 20% over lockdown.
They also said that appeals for help from elderly women and women with disabilities, often the target of physical or psychological violence by close relatives, had almost doubled.
In February, they’d had 264 calls; in April, 446.
One of the major problems with the interior ministry’s claim is that it is tricky to count something which doesn’t exist in law.
Three years ago Russia’s parliament voted 380-3 to reduce the punishment for domestic violence, effectively removing the term from the criminal code.
Under current legislation, which is first instance domestic battery, if it doesn’t require hospitalisation, the offender will receive just an administrative fine or fifteen days in prison.
That means that a slapping, kicking or beating that doesn’t break bones is not a criminal offence. That is, if it even gets reported.
Oksana Pushkina is one of the three lawmakers who voted against the legislation.
She has devoted her career first as a television host and now as a politician to women’s rights in a country which during that time has become increasingly socially conservative.
She dresses for TV, vivid blues and striking blonde bombast – she is the kind of woman who knows how to make an impact when she wants to drive a point home, even if she knows it may cost her.
“It is clear that someone like me always walks on the edge,” she said.
“I understand that I may not get into the next parliament because I voice unpopular topics.”
She said one of her constituents killed their husband.
“The neighbours heard the screams, but they didn’t call the police. Possibly at a different time the situation could have been settled somehow. But during the pandemic – no. Everyone’s nerves are frayed.”
According to a study in November 2019 by two independent media outlets, Novaya Gazeta and Mediazona, 80% of female prisoners convicted of pre-meditated murder were acting in self-defence against a violent partner.
In a remarkable reversal, Russian prosecutors earlier this year dropped murder charges against three teenage sisters who had killed their father after years of physical, psychological and sexual abuse.
The Khachaturyan sisters’ case had become a national talking point.
Their self-defence plea was finally accepted in a country where, according to their lawyer, acquittal on self-defence grounds happens in just 0.4% of cases.
Margarita Gracheva is another woman whose case had become a cause celebre. It is appallingly gruesome.
Gracheva married her childhood sweetheart, but in her mid-twenties and with two children, their marriage started to deteriorate. She said her husband thought she was being unfaithful to him. She asked him for a divorce.

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Within a two-month period, everything changed.
The first time he drove her into the woods, he threatened her with a knife. She told the police, who did nothing.
The next time, he took an axe, blindfolded her and severed her arms at the wrists.
Her hands were left frozen in the snow.
“They managed to save my left hand; it was sewn back,” she said, while showing her hand.
“But it is functioning only about 15%. That’s quite a lot given my condition. My hand was severed in three parts and when they were sewing it together the odds that it would take and not fail were 1%.
“But they couldn’t save my right hand and I have a bionic prosthesis here now”.
On her Instagram, she calls herself Transformer Mum. One of her latest videos shows her dancing in a mask, holding out her prosthetic arm to encourage people to wash their hands during the pandemic.
But she finds the publicity hard.
“Had it been possible, I would have done away with all this in return for my hands,” she said.
Her husband was sent to jail for fourteen years.
“If there hadn’t been such a public outcry, the lawyers told me, he would have gone to jail for three to five years,” she said.
“Unfortunately, though, it hasn’t changed anything. I can judge this not just as a person who has experienced it personally, but as one who receives so much mail from women sending me photos of their bruises and saying that they have turned to the police and the police have done nothing.”
There may be under-selling of the effects of her own advocacy and that of the many activists like Oksana Pushkina who are desperate for change.
Their efforts to re-criminalise domestic violence were picking up towards the end of last year.
But they face staunch opposition from conservative, orthodox forces who hold powerful political sway.
Pavel Pojigaylo, a public official and a member of the ruling United Russia party, epitomises the conservative culture which has institutionalised reactionary, anti-feminist and anti-LGBT values in Russia.
He believes that legislating against domestic violence is an infringement of the rights of the family and that domestic violence is a problem of the West.
“Our strategic aim is to have a good family with lots of children,” he said.

Image: Domestic violence is mostly de-criminalised in Russia
“We have … 145 million people. We understand this. If you have a lot of children, violence will go down – trust me.”
This epidemic will end, leaving countries to pick up the pieces as best they can.
The head of Russia’s upper house of parliament, Valentina Matviyenko, promised to resume debate on the draft bill on domestic violence when the moment allows.
There must be some compromise on this shameful issue, she said.
But that may be too late for many who sit terrified in their own homes now.
The public debate on domestic violence was growing louder in Russia prior to the pandemic.
Despite government efforts to downplay its current prevalence, perhaps the global chorus of concern over the issue will resonate here too.
The horrors of what happened to Margarita Gracheva and to so many more must not be repeated.

Source : Sky News